No doubt women are the most beautiful creatures on earth and we have no right to disrespect any. For the serious minded guys who are on the verge of crashing their relationships due to their disgusting attitude I advised to please read this and keep it as a token and always refer to it as the need arises.
1. HAVE YOU GAINED A LITTLE WEIGHT? – Even if she was super skinny before, never tell her she has gained weight. Trust me, she knows if she has gained weight and this will come across as telling her she’s “fat.”
2. MY MOTHER DOES IT LIKE THIS – Your girlfriend is not your mother and all she will hear when you say this phrase is: “You’re not good enough.
3. LET'S GO SEE MY MOM AGAIN – Being there for your mom and helping her out is very sweet. Being too dependent on your mom and not being able to go a few days without her, or asking for her advice on your relationship, is not a good thing.
4. I PREFER YOU TO DO IT LIKE THIS – If your girl is trying her best, never ever criticize her. It’s better to wait until she’s not around and then fix it the way you like it, or toughen up and adapt to it in the moment. No one is perfect and we all do things differently, but if you criticize her when she’s trying hard, she’ll give up and stop doing things for you.
5. MY FAMILY DOESN'T REALLY LIKE YOU – Even if your family dislikes her, she does not need to know this. This is between you and them, not her and them. Never put her in the middle of that fight.
6. MY EX USE TO DO IT THAT WAY – This is bad always. If it’s a special moment, you’ve likely just lost all trust from your girlfriend. It’s hurtful to know you’re still thinking about “the other girl.” Some things need to be left in the past. She doesn’t need to know how many girls you dated. If she asks, tell her you just can’t remember and that she is the only one for you so it doesn’t matter.
7. BUT THE GAME IS ON – We know that in that moment the football game is more important than your girl, but you shouldn’t tell her that. Prior to the game, let her know it’s coming on and at what time. Let her know how long it will be and where you’re watching it.
8. JUST RELAX – If a woman is mad, this will just make her madder. This tells her that you don’t respect the reasons behind her anger and you’re not willing to put in the effort to make it better.
9. I DON'T LIKE YOUR FRIENDS – You may not like her friends but they were likely there before you so make an effort to tolerate them. If you start separating her from friends, her friends will talk her into believing that you are being controlling, if this is true, she needs to dump you. If you’re not controlling and her friends are a bad influence on her, you have to slowly help her find new, better friends and new hobbies that don’t include the old friends.
10. YOU'RE BEING INSECURE – If a woman is being jealous, look at the reason behind it. Are you talking to another girl that is prettier? Are you texting other women? It’s likely that her insecurity is based on your actions.
11. YOUR FRIEND/SISTER/NEIGHBOUR IS PRETTY- This should get you slapped and will cause her months and months of sleepless nights wondering if you’d rather date the person you are complimenting. It’s better to say, “Your friend is really nice to you”.
Culled from a reliable source.
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